18 April 2012

Your grand father had been giving me news and sending me pictures of you for month, when your mother found out, your grand father was ordered to stop and I received this:

6 January 2012

20 December 2011

24 August 2011

12 August 2011

Xxxx & Co Solicitors

DX : X

By Fax : X

Your Ref:  X

Our Ref:  X                                                       12 August 2011                                                      

Dear Sirs

Mr & Mrs X

CHILDREN

Our Client is concerned that he has not seen the two children of the family for the last month following recent events and that this state of affairs cannot continue.

He would, of course, prefer to see them alone and for as much as possible. He, therefore, proposes that Contact take place three times per week with your Client’s father facilitating handover and that he spend a period of two hours with them on each occasion. He would be happy to meet your Client’s father at a neutral location for the handover. He would wish for this Contact to commence as soon as possible.

In addition, our Client would like a very brief telephone conversation with the children each evening at a time between their evening meal and bed and suggests that your Client state a fixed time for this when he will telephone her mobile number and the children can answer the telephone thereby obviating the need for any direct contact between the parties.

Our Client would want this contact to continue until he is required to vacate the former matrimonial home at the end of August and what happens in relation to the criminal charges he faces whereupon I will have to be reviewed.

We look forward to hearing from you.

Yours faithfully

PARSONAGE & CO SOLICITORS

Monday 28 of October 2013

I had started to put together another blog documenting all the move I made i order to get in contact with you so far, and all those your mother made in order to stop me from seeing you again.
I received this a few days ago:

Dear Mr. X,

It has come to our attention that a blog has been posted disclosing information upon the proceedings involving the children. These family proceedings are private and so confidential to the parties of the proceedings unless the Court orders disclosure in particular circumstances.

The same is in accordance with Rule 12.75 of the Family Procedure Rules 2010. Furthermore, such a breach of confidentiality may be deemed a contempt of Court which may be punishable by imprisonment and/ or fine. We request that the blog be immediately removed. Should you not agree to the same we shall report this abuse to the blog administrator. Lastly, if this matter is not be resolved our client shall consider returning the matter to Court to seek relevant Orders in relation to this matter. Should this course of action be necessary our client will also consider making a claim for costs against you. We confirm that the rules within family proceedings are in place for the protection of children and the parties to the proceedings. 

We await your reply within 7 days of this communication or we shall communicate directly with the blog administrator. 

We recommend that you seek independent legal advice upon the contents of this communication.

Regards, 


So here is a new blog, I shall just publish the anonymised letter between myself and your mother's solicitor and barrister.
The court proceedings will be uploaded on the previous blog (now private) for you to have a read once you get to the age of 18 years old.

Debut

23rd of october 2013.

Domestic violence cases surface (somewhat mysteriously, out of the blue) in family law where control over money and children are the key issues for unethical solicitors and their female clients

I indeed paid through the nose for all this nonsense, exhausted my savings, lost my job & moved back to France. 

I did contemplate giving up in the face of a wickedly discriminatory free legal aid system allowing your mother to use the Family court to continue with her pattern of control and abuse by refusing mediation, causing delays, throwing up obstacles, making endless allegations, distorting facts… 

In this Blog, I set out to tell you my side of the story; making sure everything I write is well documented; not a revenge, a report.